Seven (7) ways to know you’re in love
Seven (7) ways to
know you’re in love_nneka
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| Love is an intense feeling of affection and care towards someone, a deep and abiding liking for someone or something, a profound attraction to someone’s personality |
This article is going to help you
understand when you’re in love with something and someone things you do for
love and lots more about love. SEVEN WAYS TO KNOW YOU`RE IN LOVE
#ONE (1) WHEN YOU
ALWAYS THINK ABOUT THAT PERSON:
You know you’re in love when the
thought of that person always cross your mind, smiling at memories you guys had
together, review conversation you two had in the past and being optimistic
about anything concerning that special person.
Picturing a future for the two of
you; when you love someone you do a lot of thinking and imagination about the
future and what it holds for you and you special one, so if you always picture
a future for yourself and that special one then your partway in love.
#TWO (2) YOU RE
ALWAYS CONFORTABLE AROUND THAT PERSON:
WHEN you love someone you tend to be
comfortable around that person, free and excited to discuss you personally life
and you challenges with the person, Things you usually hate seem OK — and
even fun — if you're doing them with him. Riding a roller
coaster you're terrified Fine, as long as he holds your hand and promises not
to laugh at how you scream. You wouldn't put
off your responsibilities for him, but if he's sick and needs you to help take
care of him instead of going to brunch one morning, you're totally cool with
that.
#THREE (3) SEE IF YOU’RE WILLING TO
STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE FOR YOUR LOVED ONE
. If you’re really in love, then you should be willing to try
something new and unexpected for your loved one, even if it makes you a little
scared or queasy. This doesn’t mean that you should walk across hot coals or
embarrass yourself just to win over the person you love, but it does mean that
you should be ready to take a far-away trip to see your loved one’s distant
relatives in Guatemala or go on a hike or two with your loved one if he’s
obsessed with hiking.
- If you're willing to do something that you thought you would never do, such as learn a new language or learn to swim, because it's really important for your loved one, then you're more likely to be in love.
- If you've found yourself being more comfortable with being uncomfortable, with or without your loved one, then you may be in love.
#FOUR (4) SEE IF
YOU’RE WILLING TO COMPROMISE FOR YOUR LOVED ONE :
If you’re really in love, then you should know
that you can’t always get your way. If your loved one is always giving in to
your demands because you’re so stubborn, then you’re not really in love. Being
in love means getting what you want sometimes, and letting your loved one get
what s/he wants sometimes; or better yet, finding a solution that makes both
people happy.
- If you're in love, then you should not only be able to compromise with your loved one, but you should feel good about reaching a decision together, instead of feeling like you didn't really get what you wanted.
- If you're really in love, then both people should be able to compromise, instead of one person doing all the giving in every time
#FIVE (5) SEE IF
YOU’RE COMFORTABLE WITH MAINTAINING YOUR INDIVIDUALITY:
If
you’re really in love, then you shouldn't turn into a clone of your loved one,
copying all of his or her interests and hobbies and shedding anything that gave
you pleasure before you started your relationship. Instead, you should be able
to maintain your sense of self while growing together with the person that you
love. If you’re truly in love, then you should be doing the following things:
- Being comfortable hanging out with your friends without your special someone, and letting him or her do the same.
- Being okay with maintaining your own interests, such as yoga or soccer, even if your special someone doesn't do them.
- Being happy having some alone time instead of always hanging out with your significant other.
#SIX SEE IF YOU
CAN TRULY SAY WHAT’S ON YOUR MIND IN FRONT OF YOUR LOVED ONE
If
you’re really in love, then you shouldn't hold back when you talk to your loved
one. This doesn't mean that you should tell him or her every little thing
that’s bothering you or nag him or her because you feel like you’re being
honest, but it does mean that you should be comfortable enough in your
relationship to be able to bring up something that’s bothering you, or sharing
your true feelings, without feeling like it’s not worth it because your loved
one will be bored, angry, or just won’t care.
- If you can tell your boyfriend or girlfriend exactly how you feel about something without worrying that you sound immature or stupid, then you may be falling in love.
- If you're okay with cracking a joke, no matter how corny it may be, then you and your loved one are on the same page
#SEVEN (7) the only
thing better than being in love is falling in love ; Everything feels new, you aren't
quite sure if it's really love yet, and you start waiting to see who's finally
going to say it out loud first. It's the best. Soak up every sickly sweet
minute of it.
1.
You talk about things you'll do together in the future, without realizing
you're talking about the future. It's not weird to talk about that concert that's in three
months or the trip you want to take to the beach this summer around him,
because he'll be around to go with you.
2.
When you say, "I miss you," it's because you really do miss him after
only a day apart. It's
not just a cute thing to say, it's a real ache that says he's a part of your
life now.
More from sex and relationship
3.
You can't remember the last time you thought about your ex. Things with your guy now are so
good you can't be bothered with whatever's in the past.
4.
Things you usually hate seem OK — and even fun — if you're
doing them with him. Riding
a roller coaster you're terrified of? Fine, as long as he holds your hand and
promises not to laugh at how you scream.
5.
You're comfortable with making little sacrifices for him. You wouldn't put off your
responsibilities for him, but if he's sick and needs you to help take care of
him instead of going to brunch one morning, you're totally cool with that.
6.
He's the "something good" you think about when everything else is
really rough. Work
is driving you crazy, but at least you've got him to cheer you up when you get
home.
7.
You feel safe when you're around him. It's hard to describe this feeling, but
it really is the best thing in the world. Like nothing bad can happen.
8.
You're comfortable enough around him to make bad jokes and be your fully weird
self. You
might've been trying to impress him before, but now you're cool to hum around
the kitchen and wear your pants tucked into your socks when he comes over.
9.
You keep seeing things out in public that you know he'd love. Stuff you used to walk by every day
suddenly has David's name all over it.
10.
He's your person. When
something really good or really bad happens, he's who you go to first.
11.
You're not worried about "scaring him off." You're comfortable enough to cry in
front of him or show him huge, slightly embarrassing collection of Beanie
Babies (that you swear could be worth a fortune one day), because you feel
secure that he's not going anywhere at the drop of a hat.
12.
Little things, like going to the grocery store, are better when he's
around. A
walk down the cereal aisle can be a very romantic date if you're with the
right person.
13.
He annoys the hell out of you, but you still want to be around him. "I love you, but I don't like you
right now," is something you're almost ready to say.
14.
You don't freak out if he doesn't text back right away. All that "does he like me
back" anxiety is gone, and you finally have enough chill to be
OK with his slow texting.
15.
When he's sad, you're genuinely sad too. You feel his pain and he feels yours.
16.
You're actually entertained by his cute AF childhood photos. And you actually like listening to his
long, rambly stories. Just hanging out and talking about anything is fun.
17.
You'd rather stay in and do nothing with him than go out. "Started staying in and going out
less" is your new mantra, and it's totally OK with you.
18.
You want to show him all of your favorite things. Not because you want them to be his
favorite things too, but because you want him to know you better than anyone
else.
19. You
want to do things you've already done again so he can be there with you this
time. Time
to take a return trip to the Grand Canyon so you can kiss while the sun goes
down and not care how cute or gross you look — you're in love,
dammit! And you don't care who knows.
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